Lip service? or heartfelt lines?

went for a comemrcial shoot yest to be an extra...its quite cool. Now i noe how rain can be made in commercials. If u r tinking of shower heads or water hose, u r wrong. water bottles will do the job juz fine. hahah. being involved in a shoot make me realise tt its really not easy to make a good commercial film. u haf to repeat the same action so many times for the camera to capture it at diff angle. well it was nonetheless a good and enriching experience.

newae, was chatting wif jerome yest nite btw the shoots abt his r/s prob. N he tinks tt i had an interesting insight. so i shall share it wif u guys over here. why do girls feel insecure at times? esp with new guys that they meet. I guess some of these girls are from an environment like mine. whereby guys are openly flirting wif u for fun. they can call u darling, sweetheart, dear...but all these terms mean nothing to them. they can even say 'i like u leh but tink u wont accept me one so i nv go after u. if u say u like me now, i will give up my current gf to be wif u' or 'i miss u lots leh' etc, all these are but lip service to make girls happy. Girls do get immune to such lines and if they r in a good mood, they might flirt back as well. Guess tts wat 奉场作戏 is abt. Girls no longer noe which lines are true and which r not. therefore, to be safe, juz treat every line as a joke, as nothing. Unless u noe the guy well and noe tt hes not joking are simply paying lip service.

Environment is a powerful element in shaping one's opinions and character. I've been tranformed from an innocent girl who believes that the world is good, into a girl who is more cynical abt life. the backstabbings, the hypocritical lines, the casual flirtings....made tis little girl realise tt life is not a bed of roses and its not as clear as it seems.